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	<title>Comments on: Another ADDer dilemma &#8211; Changes</title>
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		<title>By: Lisa</title>
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		<description>Bryan, I feel alot like you and change. It usually is for the best but at the time I resist it so much.

Moving is a disruption to anyones life I would imagine. In my case, is so crippling at times.  I&#039;ve been in my current house over a year and still haven&#039;t settled in,in  many areas. Sure the furnitures  there but the things that make a house personal, I sorta stopped at that point.  I blamed it on the fact that since we move alot, no   place feels permanent.  Then I visited a house, where the family moves, more then mine does, and everything was in place and in order. They&#039;ve been here less time also. I have to admit, when I see things like that, my self-esteem takes a nose dive. I compare myself and don&#039;t  measure up.

  I don&#039;t like having people over because to me, my house never looks good enough.  Close to a 1,000,000 dollar house, and I still can&#039;t figure it out.

This is a symptom of my ADD. I realize not everyone with ADD is like this. 
 
So what does this have to do with change? Moving is a big change and challenge. 

Going out of town....Thats another change I always dread, yet it&#039;s one of those I&#039;m always glad I did after.

My husband usually is the one who pushes the changes, and I hate it at first, but later can see it was what I needed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bryan, I feel alot like you and change. It usually is for the best but at the time I resist it so much.</p>
<p>Moving is a disruption to anyones life I would imagine. In my case, is so crippling at times.  I&#8217;ve been in my current house over a year and still haven&#8217;t settled in,in  many areas. Sure the furnitures  there but the things that make a house personal, I sorta stopped at that point.  I blamed it on the fact that since we move alot, no   place feels permanent.  Then I visited a house, where the family moves, more then mine does, and everything was in place and in order. They&#8217;ve been here less time also. I have to admit, when I see things like that, my self-esteem takes a nose dive. I compare myself and don&#8217;t  measure up.</p>
<p>  I don&#8217;t like having people over because to me, my house never looks good enough.  Close to a 1,000,000 dollar house, and I still can&#8217;t figure it out.</p>
<p>This is a symptom of my ADD. I realize not everyone with ADD is like this. </p>
<p>So what does this have to do with change? Moving is a big change and challenge. </p>
<p>Going out of town&#8230;.Thats another change I always dread, yet it&#8217;s one of those I&#8217;m always glad I did after.</p>
<p>My husband usually is the one who pushes the changes, and I hate it at first, but later can see it was what I needed.</p>
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