Comments on: Impulsiveness meets Passion meets Infatuation meets Love? http://www.adderworld.com/blog1/2009/10/15/impulsiveness-meets-passion-meets-infatuation-meets-love/ Bryan Hutchinson's thoughts about ADD ADHD Attention Deficit Disorder and other stuff Sun, 06 May 2012 01:22:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 By: Bryan Hutchinson http://www.adderworld.com/blog1/2009/10/15/impulsiveness-meets-passion-meets-infatuation-meets-love/comment-page-1/#comment-27469 Bryan Hutchinson Tue, 20 Oct 2009 08:00:18 +0000 http://adderworld.com/blog1/?p=2553#comment-27469 Hi Heather, You wrote: "But do I learn? No… I swore I would, but then ‘he’ came along and he acted so sincere and I fall crazy in love all over again." So many of us do that and we tend to hate what we did afterwards and swear to never do it again, but we do and sometimes we get lucky, but usually we don't. Also, although the guys don't seem to want to comment on this article, remember I am a guy and I wrote it, so it's not just an issue for the gals. The comments and emails have inspired me to keep writing about this subject... stay tuned ;) Bryan Hi Heather,

You wrote: “But do I learn? No… I swore I would, but then ‘he’ came along and he acted so sincere and I fall crazy in love all over again.” So many of us do that and we tend to hate what we did afterwards and swear to never do it again, but we do and sometimes we get lucky, but usually we don’t. Also, although the guys don’t seem to want to comment on this article, remember I am a guy and I wrote it, so it’s not just an issue for the gals. The comments and emails have inspired me to keep writing about this subject… stay tuned ;)

Bryan

]]> By: Heather http://www.adderworld.com/blog1/2009/10/15/impulsiveness-meets-passion-meets-infatuation-meets-love/comment-page-1/#comment-27466 Heather Tue, 20 Oct 2009 05:10:13 +0000 http://adderworld.com/blog1/?p=2553#comment-27466 Wow Bryan. You know I always thought there was something really wrong with me falling so deeply "in love" with oh which ever guy didn't seem to mind showing a minute amount of interest. Being impulsive is one thing but when you impulsively latch on to someone and don't let go... and they don't run away screaming...but choose to stick around... well obviously that must mean something, right? oh, it doesn't? Now you tell me, now that it's too late and my heart's been crushed and I feel like a stupid fool. But do I learn? No... I swore I would, but then 'he' came along and he acted so sincere and I fall crazy in love all over again. I always thought it was just me. I'm glad it's not.. for my sake. I'm sorry it's not.. for everyone elses sake. Wow Bryan. You know I always thought there was something really wrong with me falling so deeply “in love” with oh which ever guy didn’t seem to mind showing a minute amount of interest. Being impulsive is one thing but when you impulsively latch on to someone and don’t let go… and they don’t run away screaming…but choose to stick around… well obviously that must mean something, right?

oh, it doesn’t? Now you tell me, now that it’s too late and my heart’s been crushed and I feel like a stupid fool.

But do I learn? No… I swore I would, but then ‘he’ came along and he acted so sincere and I fall crazy in love all over again.

I always thought it was just me.
I’m glad it’s not.. for my sake.
I’m sorry it’s not.. for everyone elses sake.

]]> By: Bryan Hutchinson http://www.adderworld.com/blog1/2009/10/15/impulsiveness-meets-passion-meets-infatuation-meets-love/comment-page-1/#comment-27428 Bryan Hutchinson Sun, 18 Oct 2009 08:44:14 +0000 http://adderworld.com/blog1/?p=2553#comment-27428 Dana: "Life is short……Grab onto living life to the fullest right this moment before your life passes you by. If nothing else, I will leave behind a legacy of love for all to remember." The strength of a made up mind! :) Dana: “Life is short……Grab onto living life to the fullest right this moment before your life passes you by. If nothing else, I will leave behind a legacy of love for all to remember.”

The strength of a made up mind! :)

]]> By: Bryan Hutchinson http://www.adderworld.com/blog1/2009/10/15/impulsiveness-meets-passion-meets-infatuation-meets-love/comment-page-1/#comment-27426 Bryan Hutchinson Sun, 18 Oct 2009 08:41:12 +0000 http://adderworld.com/blog1/?p=2553#comment-27426 Now that IS the question Joy and we all have to make it, and, I think we do, even if we do not fully realize it... don't you? Keep on keeping on! Like you said: Wa-hoo!! It's one heck of a ride, but the pain, it never subsides, even later, as the years have passed, those memories, they continue to bite, we remember, no, we never, never ever forget... do we? Now that IS the question Joy and we all have to make it, and, I think we do, even if we do not fully realize it… don’t you? Keep on keeping on! Like you said: Wa-hoo!! It’s one heck of a ride, but the pain, it never subsides, even later, as the years have passed, those memories, they continue to bite, we remember, no, we never, never ever forget… do we?

]]> By: Bryan Hutchinson http://www.adderworld.com/blog1/2009/10/15/impulsiveness-meets-passion-meets-infatuation-meets-love/comment-page-1/#comment-27425 Bryan Hutchinson Sun, 18 Oct 2009 08:32:13 +0000 http://adderworld.com/blog1/?p=2553#comment-27425 Ah Katy, but this type of torture is the sweetest kind... isn't it? ;) Ah Katy, but this type of torture is the sweetest kind… isn’t it?

;)

]]> By: Bryan Hutchinson http://www.adderworld.com/blog1/2009/10/15/impulsiveness-meets-passion-meets-infatuation-meets-love/comment-page-1/#comment-27424 Bryan Hutchinson Sun, 18 Oct 2009 08:30:35 +0000 http://adderworld.com/blog1/?p=2553#comment-27424 Dana, thank you, that paragraph you quoted says it all, actually. It's the hidden meaning behind this post. "Smell the coffee", as you mention is very difficult for us to do when caught between the arms of love's intense rapture. I do plan on writing more of this type of post. I don't know if I will ever write a full book of heartfelt romance, well, I think I already did, in my first book. I am working on something though ;) If you liked this post then you will certainly like One Boy's Struggle, it's from the same 'well' sort of speak. I opened up about my relationships in that book unlike any other time in my life and I think those stories have a lot to do with why my book has become so well received and popular. The heart is a special place and we know it well... don't we? Dana, thank you, that paragraph you quoted says it all, actually. It’s the hidden meaning behind this post. “Smell the coffee”, as you mention is very difficult for us to do when caught between the arms of love’s intense rapture.

I do plan on writing more of this type of post. I don’t know if I will ever write a full book of heartfelt romance, well, I think I already did, in my first book. I am working on something though ;) If you liked this post then you will certainly like One Boy’s Struggle, it’s from the same ‘well’ sort of speak. I opened up about my relationships in that book unlike any other time in my life and I think those stories have a lot to do with why my book has become so well received and popular. The heart is a special place and we know it well… don’t we?

]]> By: Bryan Hutchinson http://www.adderworld.com/blog1/2009/10/15/impulsiveness-meets-passion-meets-infatuation-meets-love/comment-page-1/#comment-27423 Bryan Hutchinson Sun, 18 Oct 2009 08:16:47 +0000 http://adderworld.com/blog1/?p=2553#comment-27423 Thank you Riri... you know, sometimes I think that it is during times of being single that we learn the most about love and relationships. If we take the time to reflect, but reflecting on the good things that were right too... sometimes we reflect on the mistakes we make so much that we ignore the good and what we did right... Anyway, I know yours is coming :) Thank you Riri… you know, sometimes I think that it is during times of being single that we learn the most about love and relationships. If we take the time to reflect, but reflecting on the good things that were right too… sometimes we reflect on the mistakes we make so much that we ignore the good and what we did right…

Anyway, I know yours is coming :)

]]> By: Dana http://www.adderworld.com/blog1/2009/10/15/impulsiveness-meets-passion-meets-infatuation-meets-love/comment-page-1/#comment-27416 Dana Sat, 17 Oct 2009 21:36:51 +0000 http://adderworld.com/blog1/?p=2553#comment-27416 Joy, I LOVE what you wrote, "Life is truly meant to be lived to the fullest so that we may joyfully experience who we really are and share our wonderful, magnificent, fabulous self with others! I choose love, joy and passion so that I may live “all out” and feel alive and experience a life well lived!! Wa-hoo!" I agree with that statement 100% and I believe that when others bring up the walls around them to protect their hearts, truly they are missing out on fabulous opportunities to grow as a human being and to learn from past mistakes. There is so much that life offers and so much beauty in having love in our life. Sure, the reality of love is that it may hurt and disappoint us at times, but is that a good enough reason to totally give up on love to choose to never fall in love again? Like Joy, I choose to live life to the fullest, to take risks even if it may mean that I get hurt or disappointed in the end! I chose joy, passion, giving, sharing and allowing myself to receive all the magnificent, wonderful love, passion and joy in return! Life is short......Grab onto living life to the fullest right this moment before your life passes you by. If nothing else, I will leave behind a legacy of love for all to remember. Joy, I LOVE what you wrote, “Life is truly meant to be lived to the fullest so that we may joyfully experience who we really are and share our wonderful, magnificent, fabulous self with others! I choose love, joy and passion so that I may live “all out” and feel alive and experience a life well lived!! Wa-hoo!”

I agree with that statement 100% and I believe that when others bring up the walls around them to protect their hearts, truly they are missing out on fabulous opportunities to grow as a human being and to learn from past mistakes.

There is so much that life offers and so much beauty in having love in our life. Sure, the reality of love is that it may hurt and disappoint us at times, but is that a good enough reason to totally give up on love to choose to never fall in love again?

Like Joy, I choose to live life to the fullest, to take risks even if it may mean that I get hurt or disappointed in the end! I chose joy, passion, giving, sharing and allowing myself to receive all the magnificent, wonderful love, passion and joy in return!

Life is short……Grab onto living life to the fullest right this moment before your life passes you by. If nothing else, I will leave behind a legacy of love for all to remember.

]]> By: Joy P. http://www.adderworld.com/blog1/2009/10/15/impulsiveness-meets-passion-meets-infatuation-meets-love/comment-page-1/#comment-27406 Joy P. Sat, 17 Oct 2009 08:09:17 +0000 http://adderworld.com/blog1/?p=2553#comment-27406 Oh Bryan!...this is my all time favorite posting of yours. It made me giggle and feel a little sad at the same time. Your words ring so true and I love and appreciate the beautiful vulnerbility of how we experience love and passion for another when we open ourself up to it. After reading it a few times, I feel it is better to truly live in the moment and experience the joy and passion of unconditional love for another instead of choosing to keep the wall up as to not get hurt. Which pain is worse?.....Closing yourself up so no one can hurt you or living life large by loving unconditionally and sharing your wonderful self with another with the possibility of getting hurt? Life is truly meant to be lived to the fullest so that we may joyfully experience who we really are and share our wonderful, magnificant, fabulous self with others! I choose love, joy and passion so that I may live "all out" and feel alive and experience a life well lived!! Wa-hoo!! Oh Bryan!…this is my all time favorite posting of yours. It made me giggle and feel a little sad at the same time. Your words ring so true and I love and appreciate the beautiful vulnerbility of how we experience love and passion for another when we open ourself up to it. After reading it a few times, I feel it is better to truly live in the moment and experience the joy and passion of unconditional love for another instead of choosing to keep the wall up as to not get hurt. Which pain is worse?…..Closing yourself up so no one can hurt you or living life large by loving unconditionally and sharing your wonderful self with another with the possibility of getting hurt? Life is truly meant to be lived to the fullest so that we may joyfully experience who we really are and share our wonderful, magnificant, fabulous self with others! I choose love, joy and passion so that I may live “all out” and feel alive and experience a life well lived!! Wa-hoo!!

]]> By: Jakob http://www.adderworld.com/blog1/2009/10/15/impulsiveness-meets-passion-meets-infatuation-meets-love/comment-page-1/#comment-27405 Jakob Sat, 17 Oct 2009 04:04:18 +0000 http://adderworld.com/blog1/?p=2553#comment-27405 In truth, I immediately i didn't understand the essence of this story. But after re-reading all at once became clear. Very sad, but true. In truth, I immediately i didn’t understand the essence of this story. But after re-reading all at once became clear. Very sad, but true.

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