• When someone assumes they know what you are about.
• When someone assumes they know what you are after in life.
• When someone assumes they know what makes you tick.
• When someone assumes your aspirations are similar to theirs.
• When someone finishes your sentences, but it’s not what you were thinking, much less what you were going to say.
• When you tell someone that you have ADHD, then a bunch of off the mark statements and knee jerk actions develop simply because they are now aware that you have it, but it is obvious they don’t really know what it is, much less how it affects you.

Preconceived notions are usually wrong.

Wouldn’t it be nice, instead of assuming something of you that they would have the selflessness to at least ask first?

It’s easier alone.

So it seems.

Sometimes, the preference to be alone is so great that it is hard to break away from, it’s seductive and oh so quiet. When we are alone there is no one to judge us, no one to condemn us, moreover, there is no one to argue with.

But, alas, being alone is so lonely.

Not to know what to say, or how to say it if you did know. It’s so much better to remain in the shadow, hushed and alone. When alone, there’s no grade or compliance, there’s no role to play or correction to make. It’s easier to be alone, because, there’s no one to tell you that you are wrong, that you don’t have what it takes, that the way you live is wrong, that what you are doing is causing problems, that how you act is unacceptable.

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